27th Feb 2010
Is He Interested In You?
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Picture this. You’re in a cafe with your girlfriends, chatting the night away. You’re talking about the usual comings-and-goings in your daily lives. Nothing’s really out of the ordinary, except that there’s a particularly hunky guy at one of the other tables. He’s with his friends, and they seem to be having a good time too. And he keeps glancing in your direction.
As the minutes tick by, you catch him throwing glances at you – each, it would seem, with more sparkle in his eyes than the one before. That’s when the first of the butterflies come in, and you start asking yourself: “Who is this guy? Is he interested in me? What should I do?”
So you keep throwing glances and smiles back and forth – until the time comes when either you or he has to leave the cafe. Something may happen here – he may give you a parting smile or a wink, at most – but you ultimately get separated, and you spend the next several days wondering if you’ll ever see him again. But, as always, you never do.
What went wrong?
This is one of the most common mistakes that smart, attractive women make. When you feel those “butterflies” for someone who’s obviously checking you out, then you obviously share a powerful attraction between you. This is the “chemistry” that most people (even scientists) believe forms the foundation of the healthiest, longest-lasting relationships out there.
And you missed a rare opportunity because of common misconceptions!
You could have, for instance, excused yourself for a few minutes from your table to get some air. As you go up, you could’ve thrown him a glance, a wink, or a smile. It would’ve been enough of an invitation for him to excuse himself from his own table and meet you outside for a few words.
Unfortunately, many great women out there can’t do even that. This is because they think that women who initiate conversations or try to establish a connection with a man are too “aggressive.” And even if women don’t think this way, they probably aren’t sure about what to do in such situations. These women think that it’s better to just sit and wait for the man to make the first move – after all, that’s their “job.”
Actually, it’s not the case. There’s nothing “aggressive” or “domineering” about a woman making the first move. In fact, it may be the start of something great.
Women who wait for the men they feel the “butterflies” for to make the first move may have to wait an eternity. And remember, you may not feel the same kind of powerful attraction to anyone else in the world, so if you missed the opportunity, you could have missed out on the man who was ultimately “meant” for you.
So next time you feel that you’re sharing a deep attraction with someone across the room, don’t be shy about making the first move. After all, you got nothing to lose, and may have everything to gain!
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Image : http://www.flickr.com
Picture this. You’re in a cafe with your girlfriends, chatting the night away. You’re talking about the usual comings-and-goings in your daily lives. Nothing’s really out of the ordinary, except that there’s a particularly hunky guy at one of the other tables. He’s with his friends, and they seem to be having a good time too. And he keeps glancing in your direction.
As the minutes tick by, you catch him throwing glances at you – each, it would seem, with more sparkle in his eyes than the one before. That’s when the first of the butterflies come in, and you start asking yourself: “Who is this guy? Is he interested in me? What should I do?”
So you keep throwing glances and smiles back and forth – until the time comes when either you or he has to leave the cafe. Something may happen here – he may give you a parting smile or a wink, at most – but you ultimately get separated, and you spend the next several days wondering if you’ll ever see him again. But, as always, you never do.
What went wrong?
This is one of the most common mistakes that smart, attractive women make. When you feel those “butterflies” for someone who’s obviously checking you out, then you obviously share a powerful attraction between you. This is the “chemistry” that most people (even scientists) believe forms the foundation of the healthiest, longest-lasting relationships out there.
And you missed a rare opportunity because of common misconceptions!
You could have, for instance, excused yourself for a few minutes from your table to get some air. As you go up, you could’ve thrown him a glance, a wink, or a smile. It would’ve been enough of an invitation for him to excuse himself from his own table and meet you outside for a few words.
Unfortunately, many great women out there can’t do even that. This is because they think that women who initiate conversations or try to establish a connection with a man are too “aggressive.” And even if women don’t think this way, they probably aren’t sure about what to do in such situations. These women think that it’s better to just sit and wait for the man to make the first move – after all, that’s their “job.”
Actually, it’s not the case. There’s nothing “aggressive” or “domineering” about a woman making the first move. In fact, it may be the start of something great.
Women who wait for the men they feel the “butterflies” for to make the first move may have to wait an eternity. And remember, you may not feel the same kind of powerful attraction to anyone else in the world, so if you missed the opportunity, you could have missed out on the man who was ultimately “meant” for you.
So next time you feel that you’re sharing a deep attraction with someone across the room, don’t be shy about making the first move. After all, you got nothing to lose, and may have everything to gain!
Tags : cafe tables
Related Blogs
- Related Blogs on Interested
- Koforidua Youth no longer interested in repairing watches | The …
- Interested In Buying Gold Coins? « Anne's Blog
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